Monthly Archives: February 2015

SOUK, SHAKSHUKRA & THE SACRED: JERUSALEM, ISRAEL


Chased out of Jordan after three days by a wicked sandstorm, we arrived in Jerusalem to sleet and high winds, and left earlier than planned 6 days later to dodge a large snow storm. Housed three blocks from the Jaffa Gate and the Old City, we stayed warm climbing the Ramparts, and eating comfort food in the Muslim souk like Shakshukra, red pepper stew with baked eggs and fresh soft pita bread to soak up the sauce, and Macloub, below.


The religious fundamentalism of the Ultra Orthodox Jews is personified by head coverings. The married women wear wigs or scarves, some so glamorous I wish I had one for my bad hair days!


The men carry a variety of hat boxes to stow and protect their hats in event of bad weather, and spend a lot of time fiddling with their payes (side burn curls). Fashionistas, indeed!


They add a rich layer to the very diverse culture of Jerusalem. We knew that Sal’s Sister-in-Law, Gloria (who gives Catholic Communion to bed bound Hispanic elders in Los Angeles nursing homes every week) would love a sacred relic from the Holy Land; we bought a simple rosary at the Church of the Holy Sepulcher, and carried it along the Via Dolorosa (where Jesus allegedly carted his cross on the way to his murder), stopping at each of the Stations of the Cross, observing Christians carrying a large cross on the same path. We thought we got off easy just carrying Gloria’s rosary beads.


We are happy to be here amongst the density of 25,000 Israelis of various religions and secular leanings, cohabitating successfully together inside the Old City walls; regardless of religious preference, all 4 Quarters display roofs densely stacked with water cisterns and satellite dishes.


The only troubling note was the blatant, in your face statement of occupation by the Settlement Jews who have moved into the Muslim
Quarter and Arabic East Jerusalem…. dangling huge Israeli flags from every window and roof gutter. What happened to ‘live and let live’ (with mutual respect) as a philosophy for getting along? The Arabs in East Jerusalem are citizens too, you know!


We can tell you that the secular Jews here resent the fact that the Ultra Orthodox Jews: 1) make bad relationships with their Arab and secular Jewish neighbors forcing everyone to follow strict Jewish Shabat rules (streets are blocked off from driving, and public transport doesn’t operate for 24 hours); 2) do not perform the three years of national military service required of all Israeli 18 year olds; and 3) don’t pay taxes as they live on the dole, studying Torah daily instead of holding a job. They resent that a high proportion of their taxes also go to support the enormous military complex, and nothing is left to improve services and infrastructure for the majority of the country. “BB” (Prime Minister Netanyahu) is very unpopular with secular Jews wanting peaceful relations with their neighbors.


Israel has very complex issues as the occupying military force of lands that were Arab occupied until 40+ years ago. Add to that the presence of Hamas and Islamic Jihad and other terrorist organizations pledged to destroy Israel, with funding by Iran. Very complex survival issues for a relatively young and very geographically tiny Jewish nation.


At the Western Wall, Sal said the Sh’ma on the women’s side of the barrier, and then stood stupefied, watching the mothers and other female family members stand teetering on unstable, broken plastic chairs peering over the wall to catch a glimpse of their baby boys becoming men, as Bar Mitzvahs. Hey! Who stayed up all night caring for those crying babies? Some thanks!


We were encouraged by the Women’s Torah Study Center near the Western Wall. I bet those women don’t get to sit on their tuches studying, while others cover the home front and pay their way.


But then again, one can always remedy any resentment with fresher and sweeter produce than any we see in the States, and lovely bakeries in every block.


A day at Vad Yashem, the most detailed Holocaust Memorial we have ever visited, left us sad and grateful that we have personally never suffered such persecution.


It is easy to see why Israel chose to observe the annual Holocaust Memorial Day, only a day separate from Israeli Independence Day. Tying the existence of the State of Israel so closely to monumental Jewish loss and suffering, makes it easier for us to avoid focusing on the inhumane behaviors Israel has engaged in to develop and defend Eretz Israel. Understand, this tiny nation has weathered constant scud missile, sniper, suicide bombings and rocket attacks from neighboring countries, and local Palestinian villages…and mistakes have been made. Give a terrified 18 year old an AK-47, and mistakes will be made, even though Israel has clearly intended to avoid harm to civilians while defending its citizens. Perhaps another wing of the museum could educate us about our history as oppressors, to ensure that we never forget our own inhumanity to our neighbors, to keep us humble and respectful in our current dealings, and to remind us of the sanctity of ALL life, even those who violently oppose our Jewish Statehood. It is very Jewish to grieve all injustice, all suffering, even at our own hands, even with the goal of survival.

PETRA: LONG HIDDEN CITY

The Kingdom of Jordan has few resources to raise their citizens above the poverty level. They have no oil reserves like the Arabic countries around them, and the landscape is barren desert or arid mountains. Most agriculture is primitive, low yield farming eg. ‘plant seeds on steep hillsides, wait for rain, hope for the best.’

Up a valley near the Israeli border at Eilat, our Jordanian driver boasted about this one unique, modern area of agriculture, with pumping stations and greenhouses; in the Negev Desert due west in Israel, there were hundreds of these same size sites. Israel’s ability to wrest water and food production from this landscape is very inspiring. As were the miles of date palm groves seen in Israel, not in evidence in Jordan. Jordan remains very much a third world country; heartbreaking, really.

Jordan’s greatest resource is the residents, who are warm, charming and very hard working, many of them the aboriginal Bedouin nomadic tribes. The second biggest resource is Jordan’s World Heritage Site, Petra National Park.
Most of us first encountered it in the movie, “Raiders of the Lost Ark.”

It is just so fantastic rising up out of the desert after a hike through the shady, steep walled gully called the Siq; it looks like a movie set constructed on a back lot at MGM studios in Hollywood.

Even the Siq has tombs and carvings as it was the Nabatean entry route for the spice trade. Why not advertise your camels and caravaneering businesses with life sized camels carved in the rock in the Siq? (However, I can’t look at the carving below without thinking of the little girl’s explanation in the movie, “Little Miss Sunshine” that she is called “Camel Toes” by the mean boys at school because she is ‘strong like a camel.’)

The Nabateans who carved this city out of the exposed sandstone walls carved and decorated thousands of tombs and even held off Roman invasions until 106 AD when the Romans altered the trade route to the North. That worked better than a siege to destroy the domination of Nabatean influence as the controllers of trade routes between China, India, Arabia and the Mediterranean; ultimately the Nabatean king swore allegiance to the Romans to save his city. Fortunately, the Nabateans had already incorporated Graeco-Roman, Egyptian, Mesopotamian styles into their carvings and they were left standing by the Romans.

However, the rise of Christianity meant the decrease in sacrifices and pagan rituals, and thus the demand for frankincense and trade in general along these routes was destroyed. The City was gradually abandoned, and lost to the West until a Swiss traveler rediscovered it in 1812.

What you see below is an example of Nabatean engineering advances; clay water pipes with widened areas and openings to reduce pressure and encourage fast flow, hidden in the rock 16 feet above the trade route in 100 BCE before it filled with silt to its current level where we walk beside it now. It saved the City from multiple sieges as water flowed from buried cisterns outside the Siq, downhill through these hidden pipes.

When you exit the Siq into the sunlight, you are surrounded by steep pitted rocks filled with caves, tombs, amphitheaters seating 7,000, small carvings, colonnades, and enormous facades carved with detailed designs.

Although the Treasury and the Monastery are in good condition the exposure to erosive wind, rain and shifting sands is destroying other parts. One freestanding arch that Sally viewed on a visit 12 years ago was three rock strings thick. Now it is one fragile rock string across. Go soon, and give the Jordanian economy a boost!
We hiked 12.5 miles and climbed 66 stories to access three high trails. Lucky we did that on our first day as the following days were impaired by a 45 mph gusting sandstorm darkened the day and wrecked visibility.

Instead we camped out at our favorite local Jordanian restaurant and ate Mansouf (yoghurt sauce chicken and rice eaten Bedouin style with the right hand) and a drinkable sweet cream of wheat dessert, sock-a-leb, and hot bread that was a chewy high gluten quick bread between a tortilla and naan.

…and then we came back for Macloub (saffron chicken and rice) and a flan like dessert…

If you go, skip the more expensive and less tasty places on the entry road. Walk up one block to FETAFEAT (next to the blue and yellow apartment building) where the locals eat like kings for $7 each. Our friend Othman and his mother, the chef will take good care of you!

Location:Petra, Jordan

ISRAEL-A-GO-GO: EILAT

We realized upon our arrival that our pre-formed ideas about Israel were based primarily on the little we knew about Jerusalem: old and religious. Eilat was a culture shock; the mix of European scantily clad bikini bods, Chasidim in wool frock coats and black hats, Ethiopian and Russian immigrants, and young Arabic families strolling together at the beach in a, “Disco/Atlantic City Boardwalk/Riviera” themed world was… bizarre and wonderful. Perhaps cosmopolitan, high tech and religious Israel needs one super relaxed, tolerant secular city (like China has always needed Hong Kong) as an outlier? Our first Shabat in Israel was so sweet and quiet among the waving date palms in our lovely airbnb host’s garden.

The beach/hotel area is hemmed in by the Red Sea to the South, the Negev Desert to the North, the Kingdom of Jordan to the East, and Egypt to the West. It is a unique juxtaposition of culture.

Then put the airport, with roaring jets taking off next to the charming cafes, right in the City Center, add a lot of uzi-toting Israeli Defense personnel, then add a huge dose of relaxed, resort feeling, and lots of ice cream and shopping….you get the drift…a strange and unique kind of Israeli Disneyland.


Thanks to our super hospitable airbnb.com hosts Yosef and Leah, we relaxed at a quieter beach, Dolphin Reef, that has scuba diving with dolphins, or just beaching it with a cafe and pastry. We were glad to see disabled adults getting animal therapy being with the dolphins, one morning at Dolphin Reef.

We took a scuba refresher course at home, to ensure we would safely dive the world famous coral reefs of the Red Sea. No need to worry ourselves, our Russian Dive Masters were very professional and the equipment was in good condition. With beautiful coral reef available as a shore dive, we literally ran into other divers on the reef, especially near a popular sunken wreck. The hordes that feed fish on the reef have conditioned one particularly enthusiastic 14 inch Clown fish (Nemo’s big bruiser, dark blue cousin) to rub up against us throughout the dive cadging for food. It was a bit unnerving at first as he had huge overbite fangs protruding from his mouth.

The food in Eilat was healthy and affordable, but mediocre in the cafes. More expensive restaurants such as Eddie’s Steak House, and Fish Only, are available when you need a higher end meal, in the hotel district.

Surprisingly, in our quiet airbnb.com neighborhood up the hill with a charming garden, we found the best fresh pastries, and great sandwich shop. Sally had to wait 30 minutes for three deep, triple parked taxis to clear out of the Nevi’ot intersection to take a picture. Note for future travel: for fast food, go where the local taxi drivers stop for a quick meal!

Location:EILAT, Israel

SHABAT SHALOM: ERETZ ISRAEL

Tonight at 5:21 PM, the sun will set here in Eilat on the Red Sea in Israel. We will light shabat candles with our portable, traveling candleholders (Todah Rabah, Ricky!) in our airbnb.com garden. We wish my son Jacob could be with us tonight, especially as it is 87 degrees F. here while he awakens in -24 degree weather in Upstate NY. However, he plans to travel here next Winter with Birthright Israel.

We are so excited to share the sabbath with an entire nation. We are grateful to be here, embracing peaceful coexistence with our neighbors. We hope you all enjoy a warm and restful Shabat with your loved ones. L’Chaim!

REAL WINTER: NEW YORK CITY

En route to Israel and Jordan, we elected to stop for a family visit in Essex Fells, New Jersey. First, a day in Manhattan after a red eye flight…in 16 degree F. weather with a wind chill factor bringing it down to 4 degrees F. Brrrrr!

As Californians after 4 years of drought we celebrated the snow with 1) a snowball fight in Midtown…and icicle sword fighting!

2) a trip to the top of the Empire State building with NO tourists at 8 AM after a night of snowfall,

…and 3) the search for outdoor activity to stay warm with insufficient snow to cross country ski in Central Park, but too icy to bicycle either. What were we to do? Head into deeper snow in the woods next to our family members’ home in New Jersey for a good dog walk with Sal’s brother!

In such extreme cold, our visit to the Turtleback Zoo provided lots of animals (and 0 people) out in the snow.

However, the Liberty Science Center (indoors) was thronged with kids so we camped out at the IMAX films, making us want to plan a trip to Madagascar to see lemurs and tropical birds as soon as possible.

Tomorrow we will put away the parkas and mittens, and fly to the deserts of Israel and Jordan, on the heels of another snowstorm tonight. 66 degrees and scuba diving in the Red Sea sounds so-o-o-o very enticing right now. Shalom!


… details on elevator doors in the Art Deco lobby of the Empire State Building.